Now, this might be my city-dweller imagination getting away from me, but when I hear "picnic" I think
Anyhoodle, after several outfit changes and phone calls ("What are YOU wearing?"), this is where I ended up:
cardigan: Old Navy
earrings: I made them
"Dressy jeans" was the consensus. I probably would have been okay in my favorite wrap dress of all time--which was option #2--but I was afraid of getting chilly when the sun went down. So the jeans won.
I'm not gonna lie, it felt totally strange to wear them, but it WAS easier to dance without the squeeze of panty hose.
What about you? Jeans at a wedding: yay or nay?